Sunday, 15 December 2013

Wishing you a very happy Christmas and all the very best for 2014



We've had an interesting and varied year and are very grateful to God for all his blessings. Below are a few of the highlights...

Dec 2012/Jan 2013: fun in the sun in Dubai with the wonderful Malins family

Jan: new addition to the family - Muffin

March: Steve turns 45!

May: Amy and friends dance during school 'KidZone'. 
Amy also sang in a tri-school music festival and Amy, Paul and Jude all sang at a recent Christmas choral event. Amy is having piano and violin lessons and Paul is learning to play piano and drums. 

July: few days holiday in historic Bhaktapur

July: Steve signs Tearfund's project agreement with the government - a big milestone.
Prior to this Steve was in the UK for meetings and enjoyed spending time with our families in Yorkshire and the Midlands, as well as catching up with friends in Farnham.    

Sept/Oct: cousin Ros and husband Tim come to visit
We also enjoyed receiving two groups of Tearfund supporters during the year, as well as several other visits from colleagues and friends 

Oct: trekking in the Annapurna region with Ros and Tim

Little trekkers

Oct: boating in Pokhara


Oct: Amy turns 10

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given... And he will be called Wonderful Counsellor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6


Thank you for all your interest, support and prayers

With our love, Steve,Jude, Amy & Paul















Thursday, 8 August 2013

Reflections on our first year in Kathmandu

When we arrived in July last year everything made us tired - the heat and humidity, the crazy traffic, trying to learn Nepali (which is an ongoing challenge!), unreliable electricity and water supplies, traipsing round different shops to buy provisions and then lugging them home in heavy rucksacks in the blazing sun/pouring rain, new culture, new routines, new sounds (noisy dogs!), new smells, new tastes....

Now most of this feels normal (although each day is different and we never know quite what to expect)! Goat's heads on the butcher's stalls, piles of rubbish, barrows laden with fruit & veg/pots and pans/plastic goods - all normal sights. We still linger near the big temple by the bridge to watch the monkeys and we like to see the cows wandering around. We love the way that everyone smiles and says 'namaste' if you catch their eye.


Apples and pears for sale
We all have great bikes and we cycle everywhere (which makes shopping easier too as we can hang the bags on the handlebars as well as on our backs!). In the hot season we go swimming at the local hotel and when it's cooler we cycle out of town into the fresh air of the countryside. We are getting good at avoiding the holes in the road and negotiating the traffic at cross-roads. 

Home is our oasis - a place to rest, play, read, eat, sleep...


Home
During term time the days whizz by in the same way that they did back home with a slightly longer school day (8.10am to 3pm), various after school activities, play dates, daily homework and work. Weekends are full of church activities, orchestra (Amy), giving piano lessons (Jude), visits and visitors. 

Things we love:
  • making new friends, both Nepali and international
  • our dog, Muffin
  • our fresh egg supply and vegetable garden
  • the spring and the autumn when we get clear views of the high Himalayan mountains and the weather is sunny and warm
  • our bikes
  • the fact that even though we are in a capital city it feels surprisingly rural with free-range animals, leafy lanes, paddy and corn fields in-between houses and great views of the stars at night (no street lamps) 
  • the monsoon rains which you can hear approaching as they sweep across the rooftops bringing cooler, fresher air and water to fill up the well
  • our solar panels, batteries and inverter which mean we always have at least some electricity
  • the historical heart of the city where everyday life is played out against a backdrop of stunning architecture, temples and palaces 
  • the natural beauty of this fascinating country and the warmth, friendliness and patience (with us!) of the Nepali people

Local shop
Walking home from the bakery
Things we find more challenging
  • being away from family and friends
  • the dust and pollution
  • the monsoon rains when you are in the wrong place at the wrong time!
  • the risk of illness because of unsafe food and water
  • the chaos of the roads
  • the way that seemingly straight forward tasks such as paying bills and dealing with government offices often turn into time consuming epics
  • the unpredictability of everything - although that makes it exciting too! 






















Saturday, 11 May 2013

More travels

Steve and I have both been travelling recently - me with a group of Tearfund prayer supporters and Steve with colleagues from the UK and Nepal.

When we visit Tearfund's partners in different parts of the country we are always inspired  and encouraged by the work they are doing, sometimes in very difficult circumstances. Here are two stories that particularly stood out for us this time.


Children giving us flowers in Rupandehi district (photo Jude C)
Peace and reconciliation

Near the India border in Rupandehi district, seven years after the end of the civil war, political unrest and ethnic conflict continue to simmer.

In 2007 a local disagreement between two ethnic groups resulted in 13 deaths and 200 houses were burnt down. The Lumbini Christian Society, supported by Tearfund partner UMN, heard of the conflict and bravely went to meet with the people involved. They were able play a mediation role and counsel traumatised people in both communities.

They went on to facilitate the development of an inter-faith network of 'Peace Groups'. Hindu, Muslim and Christian men and women from different ethnicities, and with different political persuasions, are now working together to promote forgiveness and reconciliation, and to resolve disputes before they lead to violence. The area has been transformed as a result.

Neighbours are not only friends again but are working together in income generation activities such as shops and vegetable farming. The groups are starting to save money which is lent to members on a revolving basis. Many of the women in the groups who previously were not permitted to talk in public (and who were often subjected to domestic violence) are now being given a voice for the first time.  

One woman from a group called 'Creative Peace' said 'I am learning many new things in the group...it is important for us to work together...if we save money it will grow and we will be able to do big things in the future.' 


'Creative Peace' community group (photo Jude C)

Threshing wheat in Rupandehi district (photo Jude C)
Prevention of child trafficking

Nepal is a source country for the trafficking of children into the commercial sex industry or involuntary servitude as domestics, circus entertainers, factory workers or beggars. It is estimated that 10-15,000 Nepalese women and girls are trafficked to India annually, while 7,500 children are trafficked domestically. Others are taken to the Middle East and beyond. 200,000 Nepalese girls and women are thought to be currently residing in Indian brothels. Girls as young as nine years old have been trafficked.


In many cases, relatives or acquaintances facilitate the trafficking of children. Girls may be sold for as little as Rs 200 (£1.60) to brokers who deliver them to brothel owners for up to Rs 40,000 (£320). This purchase price, plus interest, becomes the debt that they must work to pay off – a process that can stretch on indefinitely.

Others are lured to the cities or abroad by the promise of good jobs or schooling. Some are drugged and kidnapped.

Tearfund's local partner, Children at Risk Network (Carnet), works with churches, schools and women's groups in some of the poorest areas of Nepal to raise awareness about, and prevent, child abuse and trafficking. Vulnerable families are supported to develop new sources of sustainable income, reducing the need for children to drop out of school and be sent away to work at an early age.  

Nuwakot district - one of the areas of Nepal most vulnerable to child trafficking (photo Pranaya P)
Ganga Devi Tamang had moved to Kathmandu because there were no employment opportunities in her remote, rural village in Nuwakot district. However, when she heard about the business training being provided by Carnet she decided to return home.

She joined a women’s group, started a meat shop and kept two hens. Now she has 80 hens. Previously chicken meat was imported from outside the community but now she can supply a lot of the local demand. She also runs a rice shop. Others in the group have started tailoring and vegetable farming businesses. 

Ganga's poultry farm (photo Pranaya P)
There have been other benefits too. One woman said ‘I always used to quarrel with my husband - even once I felt like committing suicide. The business training helped us see that we were spending our time doing nothing. I have learnt to deal better with my husband through the training on family values. Before my husband didn't care what I did. Now he helps me in my business.’


Other women agreed that they were now getting more respect from their husbands and families. One young, unmarried woman, vulnerable to trafficking, said ‘I didn't know before how to generate income. I didn't have much respect from my family. Now I am involved in goat farming and I'm studying in grade 12.’

A new day (photo Jude C)

Thanks for reading. More soon.

SJAP x




Wednesday, 6 February 2013

Jude's travels

A couple of weeks ago I had the privilege of accompanying a group of Tearfund supporters to visit various Tearfund partners and projects in different parts of Nepal. 

The members of the group spend a lot of their free time speaking to churches and community groups in the UK about the work of Tearfund, raising the profile of the organisation and encouraging financial and prayer support. 

The purpose of the trip was to gain an insight into the country, its people and the challenges they face on a day to day basis. Also to meet and gather stories from people who are benefiting from the projects that Tearfund supports.


Hearing people's stories
The start of the visit was interesting to say the least! The weather had closed in and loud claps of thunder and bright flashes of lightening were making everyone waiting at the airport increasingly jumpy! (We hadn't had any rain at all since November so it was a bit unexpected!)

The plane finally landed and, after an hour of pacing, the group walked out of the terminal building  They exited the building at 2pm and our plane to the town of Pokhara was due to leave at 2pm so we were pretty sure we had missed it! However, we rushed across to the domestic terminal building and ran up to the desk to find that the plane was delayed until 3pm! Phew! Then began the worry that the plane would be cancelled altogether...

But it wasn't! By 4.30pm we were in Pokhara and just after we landed the clouds closed in again, the heavens opened and there were no more flights that day! We felt very strongly that God had smoothed the way for us - it was a great start to the group's Nepal adventure!

The following day, because of the rain and thunder storms, the sky was clear and we woke to stunning views of the high Himalaya, capped with fresh snow, and felt the welcome warmth of the winter sun. 


Machhapuchhre or 'Fishtail' with the Annapurna range behind

The next two days were spent in the community of Talchowk where we met a church group who have received training from Tearfund's partner, Sagoal.

The church, after identifying the community's needs and working out what they could do to address some of these needs, is now involved in many different activities such as waste management, road improvement and a tailoring workshop. Their example has encouraged community members to follow suit and now many of the barriers which existed between church and community are beginning to disappear.


The church and Sagoal paid for several people to attend tailoring training. These ladies are now trainers themselves and are teaching others at this workshop, providing opportunities for many women (whose husbands are often away working in India) to earn money to support their families.

We stayed the night with extremely generous families from the church who fed us delicious meals and showed us the beautiful scenery surrounding their village. 



After that it was off to Sunsari down on the India border. Again, we nearly didn't make it (because of fog this time) but as we flew alongside the Himalayas to the east of Kathmandu the skies were clear and we were afforded an incredibly clear view of Everest.

In Sunsari we visited several people living with HIV and AIDS and saw what a great job the churches and Tearfund's partners are doing to raise HIV awareness, reduce stigma and discrimination and provide practical, home-based care for those affected by the virus.

We had the privilege of meeting Raju and family.  Here's his story:


‘It is so easy to fall into risky behaviour. Before you know it, you have put your family in danger. I used to inject drugs, and often used unclean injecting equipment. That was the start of our problems.

‘About two years ago, my wife became very sick. While she was in hospital she was found to have HIV. I sought help from NJSS (a Christian NGO supported by Tearfund). They supported my wife, and her health was restored. Later, I took my children for an HIV test, and they were also HIV positive. NJSS provided counselling, and we learned to live with the condition.

‘My family was very poor, and we found it difficult to meet our basic needs such as food and shelter. I was unable to put my children into school. NJSS provided a new rickshaw and two pigs to help us make a better livelihood. My income is NRP 200 to 400 per day (GBP 1.40-2.80) from the rickshaw. I am able to meet most of the needs of my family, and now my children go to school. My daughter wants to be a doctor when she grows up.

Raju and his 5-year old son  with the rickshaw provided by NJSS
‘We used to live in a small temporary hut made of dry grass and mud that became uninhabitable, especially in the wet season. Sometimes we lived on a neighbour’s veranda. 25 members from a local church came and constructed a two-roomed house for my family. They collected construction materials by donation, and did all the work themselves. That was real love in the name of Jesus.

Raju's wife and daughter inside their new home
‘I share my story with community groups and have seen neighbours change their attitudes towards people living with HIV and AIDS. I am thankful to NJSS, the church and God for giving my family hope and a future. 

After a couple of days in Sunsari it was back to Kathmandu but this time our plane was cancelled! Instead we traveled back overnight by road (a 14 hour trip) so the group could catch their international flight the following day. Bit of an epic but all part of life here in Nepal!

It was a great week, thanks for reading!

Jude